How does one succeed in life?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What happens if a parent refuses to let their child be transgender? What happens if the parent tries their hardest not to allow their child to be trans, like flushing every bottle of their trans child's HRT down the toilet?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How do you emotionally react to when others seem to feel sorry for you?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What can I do when I'm ugly on both outside and inside? What do I do? Cut myself off from the world to make everyones lives better? I'm a monster. I hurt feelings, and I say what was said to me. I feel like I'm nothing but a burden. What do I do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is my crush beautiful to me but not to others?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I haven’t eaten junk food for weeks, I ate dirty all-day yesterday, but I can’t even workout, why am I so tired?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Beautiful European women were killed by inquisition but Russia was not Catholic. Is this the reason for a drastic difference explaining why Russian women are the prettiest?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do interviewers discriminate against a candidate if he or she is overweight (assuming physical fitness is NOT part of the job requirements)?

Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why have Indian girls almost stopped wearing sarees?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How would you feel if your friend confided in you that she is cheating on her husband, knowing that he loves her deeply? What emotional and ethical considerations would you grapple with in response to her revelation?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.